MONEY PROBLEMS

Money is not a problem, problem is how to use it ..
Money is good! Money is everything. 'Money is not everything' is a phrase told to the poor to stop them from protesting...Money doesn't change people! money only brings to life the true characters of people that have been kept hidden from the world.

A poor man can stay faithful to his woman because he doesn't have money to take to the bars or to give to women but wait until money shows up on his doorstep...,  the man changes.This are the kind of men who turn to be womanizers and suffer from something called mental poverty, He now wants to get noticed, he wants to feel needed and even worse.., worshiped..so he starts feeling like 'the only bull that can mount cows' and goes around sleeping with different women every time because he now has coins to spend.

 Owe unto you if this kind of person suffering from mental poverty is your senior in  any sector of your life or worse still, your significant other because they work very hard to frustrate you. They feel superior, above law or in control of anything that governs our daily activities of life. No matter how rich this kind of person is, the mental poverty is something he might never get to get rid of because as they saying goes, you can take the monkey out of the jungle, but you can never get the jungle out of the monkey! 

Time is money...so Still on  money, lets dissect the kind of friends/relationships we have in our lives. Relationships that if we sit quietly and analyse, we really don't need them.

•  The expensive and not so necessary relationships ...by expensive i don't mean monetary-wise only, i mean friendships that will rob you off your time, your sleep and load you with more unnecessary baggage,  They expects you to ignore your tired brains, your busy work schedules and disrupt your sleeping patterns because they want it so. And what do you get in return? sweet nothings and very loud empty words..saying the things they can do and end up not doing. The thing i find funny is that should you fail to rise to any of their occassions/meet their expectations, they will be furious and very mad from here to the moon and back.

• The kind that turns you into being a psychologist, counselor or God parent because you spend your time solving their drunken stupid problems, they expect you to pick their every call, calm them down during their bad times and help them make merry in their successes. They want you to be the good listener to listen to their every life updates... i did this.... i want to do this and that, blah blah blah and the list goes down to the river.

All this time you are not to be anywhere in the picture.... why Spend your precious time with people who will not even twitch when they hear that you are in any kind of problem leave alone affecting their sleeping patterns or their drinking routines or any routine for that matter??. They say if you can count your 10 fingers and toes while counting how many friends you have,.... then you really don't have friends.....

'Life is not a rehearsal we only live it once' am sure we've heard this so many time and I say.. its time for the 'thanks for... what have you done?' handshake and walk tall to your destiny! Get back to the drawing board and know who are really your friends..Its better to watch a movie/documentary, learn something new and get entertained or better still, meditate than waste your time with people who really dont add any value to your life! Its high time you let them claim their baggage!.

It should be noted that yes I completely understand that that's what friends are for, being there for one another.. but if they don't reciprocate the same, Who needs them??

I dont!